The next Level

In dating a person, there is an unwritten rule of thumb when it comes to the "Next Level" of commitment.

Something that should be paid close attention too, in order too have a clear unspoken understanding of the level of commitment your partner is ready for...

This rule is: your mate will always treat you like the next level of commitment they are ready for.

So lets just say for sake of argument that the proper order of a relationship is dating, courting, relationship, engagement, then finally marriage. So if your dating a person they should treat you like your courting. And if your courting they should treat you like your in a relationship. The way they treat you is a subliminal showing of how they want to progress with you.

Now this works in reverse also. So, if your engaged to a person and they are only treating you like your engaged or they are only treating you like your in a relationship. Then they are showing you they aren't ready to move forward.

Being that action speaks louder then words, their actions will tell you what level of commitment they are prepared for.

So don't fool yourself into believing that when you hit that level they will show you that they are ready for it.

When a person desires something, subconsciously their mind and actions follow in suit. Without any coxing at all from you or anyone else.

So watch your mates actions, and more importantly your own actions to see if they reflect the "Next Level".